The world is pretty f@#ked up @ present & what you say is true! I am 45 years old, an ex Australian soldier, a Son of a Father who was also a Soldier who fought in Korea & Malaya, & I am a Father of 2! I have a Daughter 14 & my Son is 12. My Daughter was born 8 weeks early & when she came out & started to cry, so did I. I cried so much, but is was cries of joy! cries of love! cries of relief that she & my Wife were ok! My Father was there & he looked @ me when I cried. He didn’t say anything but I could tell his look was, why are you crying? I had a brief feeling of want am I doing this for? But my emotions were to strong to stop, & it felt good to let it out! I know my Father didn’t mean to judge me, but it was the way he & so many other men of his generation are. I have only just recently found this website, & I love it! Keep up the great work & your post is awesome Amber, so true!